Medical studies show that having a 4 oz glass of red wine
everyday can help prevent cardiovascular disease and prevent certain tumors
from forming. Yet, someone who
drinks a bottle of wine a day can destroy their physical health, not to mention
damage relationships with family, friends, and coworkers sometimes beyond
repair. We would say, "they have a problem, an addiction."
But chemical dependencies are far from the only addictions
out there. Some people are
addicted to gambling, some are addicted to social networking, some are addicted
to shopping, some are addicted to sports (playing and watching), and some are
addicted to video games.
None of these things in moderation are necessarily bad, some
like red wine actually have real benefits, but we don’t live in a moderate
culture anymore. Everything
is excess. Do you want to know if you’re addicted to something? Look at your
daily routine and give up that thing you do/think about most.
Whatever the addiction, the root is always the same. Escape. There is a hole in the addict’s life, dug deep by hurts,
failures, greed, and pride. And
the addiction offers a distraction from the emptiness.
People drink or do drugs because they want to feel
differently about their life.
People gamble because they can’t seem to make enough to get ahead. They
use social networks to fill the lack of real life connections. They shop because they can’t seem to
find that one thing that will make them better than the neighbors. They live vicariously through sports
stars because they don’t have the physical prowess they wish they did. They play video games because of the
success they experience there that they don’t have in real life.
And that’s the sad part about addiction. The temporary elation the addict
experiences isn’t real. It isn’t
lasting.
There is more to real life than the pursuit of pleasure.
Real life is actually all about the pursuit of God. He is the only pursuit worthy of
excess. He is the only pursuit that will fill the holes in our soul. And He is the only pursuit that
will bring life.
Beloved, I urge you as aliens and strangers to abstain from
fleshly lusts, which wage war against the soul, and to put on the Lord Jesus
Christ, making no provision for the flesh in regard to its lusts. (1
Peter 2:11/Romans
13:14)